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Mrs. Shah has been encouraging and supportive in my healing
process…many of the momentous emotional themes have emerged with
her simply listening…I am grateful and what she does has made a
significant difference in my life. S.M.
I don’t know where I would be today had I not sought therapy and
the help of Mrs. Shah.
Mrs. Shah makes me feel like I can say anything to her, she has
great insight and helps me develop different points of view
about my problems, she is a very special person…m.s. |
A LOOK IN THE REARVIEW MIRROR

It is quite often that the “objects in the rearview mirror
appear larger or closer than they really are”, and guide us
forward, perhaps even mislead us. Looking back in time, images
of Psychotherapy
are everywhere. When we think of therapy, we
are drawn
to an image of a bearded gentleman dressed in a black suit, with
a pipe hanging out of his mouth. He is situated in a very sober
room with a client who is stretched out on a sofa and is either
weeping or hysterically expressing her/his woes.
We’re surrounded by images in movies, on television and through
radio talk shows that help us to stereotype and/also clarify our
misunderstood descriptions of therapy. Cartoons and jokes in
magazines refer to helping professionals as “shrinks,” people
trained to hypnotize and make you magically behave differently.
Additionally, our family, friends, and co-workers reinforce the
image of weakness and defeat if one were to seek out help.
History has also outlined Psychiatric services for the severely
disabled
mentally ill person; leaving many individuals with the
perception that therapy is not for them and rendering help would
make them mentally ill. Thus, the apprehension that a person has
in seeking therapy is brought about through our preconceived
notions and the underpinnings of our society.
From treating institutionalized adults to the mainstream
individual, the field has moved forward, with the development of
many theories and evidence-based research on the effectiveness
of treatment modalities. There is a common thread among the many
treatment methods which highlights the foundation of this
design; listening, assessing, observing, being empathic and
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Listening – Therapist’s are engaged in active
listening, even through the silences and will refrain from
excessive talking. Although, this is uncomfortable for many in
the beginning, it brings out a greater understanding of the
problem and how it feels.
** Assessing – Therapist’s and individuals
are encouraged to assess in every session and helps to determine
the root cause and onset of one’s problems.
** Observing – Therapists’ are constantly
involved in recognizing client’s non-verbal and verbal
communication. This provides mirroring process which also serves
to help clients observe and pay attention to their reactive and
non-reactive behaviors.
** Being Empathic – Therapist’s show a
level of caring and listening while maintaining objectivity and
non-judgmental environment for clients to feel comfortable in
expressing their concerns.
** Planning – All Therapist’s actively
formulate a treatment plan which is best suited to help their
clients based on their theoretical orientation. |

Today there are many effective treatments which help individuals
with all types of illnesses despite their severity. It is the
professional that will assess functioning and diagnose and guide
the individual through a course of treatment which incorporates
these basic principles. The field of Psychology has evolved in
the last century, and precipitated the growth and awareness of
its benefits. The rearview mirror had magnified its worth, and
attempted to recompense us by bring it forward. This metaphor
serves to provide a very brief outlook of where the profession
is today and to reduce the anxiety associated with seeking help.
Psychotherapy, self-examination, individual awareness, and anxiety,
can be few of the comfortable topics obtained during your treatment with your licensed professional.
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